Treating Social Anxiety Disorder with Mindfulness



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It’s completely normal to feel anxious in social situations. Be it giving a speech or talking on the phone, social anxiety affects a surprisingly large percentage of the population. However, when one experiences considerable distress and an impaired ability to function in parts of their daily life, it is likely they will be diagnosed as social anxiety disorder.1

Many people with social anxiety disorder do not know that they have it. They may recognize that there is something “wrong,” but do not know what it is or what to do about it. This is where mindfulness can help. By being mindful, aware of the present moment, one can identify that they feel “some kind of way.” Through practice, rather than being self-critical, or judgmental of the anxiety-provoking situation, one can learn to accept things as they are rather than the way they “ought to be.” This, in turn, can lead to an increase in self-compassion and the reduction of social anxiety symptoms.

What is Social Anxiety Disorder?

Social anxiety disorder is generally understood to be characterized by a marked fear of situations in which there is potential for embarrassment or humiliation in front of others. It is important to note, it is merely the ‘potential’ for embarrassment or humiliation, not necessarily any actual negative experience. It is this fear that makes social anxiety disorder so insidious.

Social Anxiety Disorder Symptoms

The symptoms of social anxiety disorder are generally triggered by two main social categories: performance situations and interpersonal interactions. Performance situations are where people feel they are being observed by others. Situations such as public speaking, eating in front of others, and using a public washroom can all be triggering to someone who suffers from social anxiety disorder.

Interpersonal interactions are those where people are interacting with another person. Interactions such as talking to friends or co-workers, dating or even ordering food at a restaurant can also be extremely triggering.

When triggered by one of these social situations, an individual with social anxiety disorder may experience physical, emotional, and behavioral symptoms. Physical symptoms may include rapid heartbeat, stomach issues, shaking or trembling, excessive sweating and blushing. Emotional symptoms may include extreme fear and anxiety, nervousness, panic attacks and body dysmorphia (particularly concerning the face). Behavioral symptoms include avoidance of social situations, refraining from social activities due to fear of potential embarrassment, isolating oneself and excessive alcohol and substance abuse.

Age of Onset

Social anxiety disorder has a relatively early age of onset. Symptoms generally manifest at around 13 years of age.2 A significant number of people who develop social anxiety disorder in adolescence recover before reaching adulthood. That being said, only about half of those with the disorder ever seek treatment. Moreover, those who do seek treatment, generally only do so after experiencing symptoms for 15-20 years. There are several explanations for an individual to not seek professional help: feelings of embarrassment or fear, a feeling that their shyness is part of their personality, or ironically, a function of the disorder itself.3

Prevalence of Social Anxiety Disorder

Social anxiety disorder is one of the most common anxiety disorders in Canada.4 About 7.1% of adults in the U.S. had social anxiety disorder in the past year, according to the National Institute of Mental Health. Lifetime prevalence rates of up to 12% have been reported, compared to lifetime prevalence estimates of 6% for generalized anxiety disorder, 5% for panic disorder, 7% for post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and 2% for obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD).3

What is Mindfulness?

Mindfulness is a mental state achieved by focusing one’s moment-by-moment awareness, while calmly acknowledging and accepting one’s thoughts, feelings, physical sensations and surrounding environment, in a gentle, non-judgmental way.

It is important to note, that mindfulness involves a sense of acceptance. That is, paying attention to thoughts and feelings without judging them — without believing, for instance, that there’s a “right” or “wrong”, “good” or “bad” way to think or feel in a given moment.

Though mindfulness has its roots in Buddhism, secular mindfulness has become popular in the West due in part to the work of Jon Kabat-Zinn and his Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) program developed during the late-1970s.

How to Practice Mindfulness?

The practice of mindfulness is not overly difficult. The real work is remembering to practice. There are many ways to practice mindfulness, and below is a short practice to help get you started.

  1. Take a seat – Find a place to sit that feels safe, calm and quiet.
  2. Set a time limit – It can help to choose a short time, such as 5 or 10 minutes.
  3. Notice your body – Notice how your body feels against the chair or cushion. Notice any aches or pains. Notice any need to fidget.
  4. Follow your breath – Follow the sensation of your breath as it goes out and as it goes in.
  5. Notice when your mind has wandered – Your mind will wander; it’s what minds do. Your attention will leave the sensations of the breath and wander to other places. When you notice this, in a few seconds or a few minutes, simply return your attention to the breath.
  6. Be kind to your wandering mind – Try not to judge yourself or obsess over the content of the thoughts you find yourself lost in. Just come back to the breath and start again.

Mindfulness is essentially the practice of paying attention to the present moment — thoughts, feelings and physical sensations. With practice, one can learn to gain psychological “distance” from their worries and negative emotions, seeing them as an observer, rather than being engrossed with them.1 As one gets better at recognizing unhelpful thoughts, uncomfortable emotions and/or sensations as they arise, they will also get better at choosing how they react, or not react, to said thoughts and sensations.

How can Mindfulness be Used to Treat Social Anxiety Disorder?

Through the practice of mindfulness, one can learn to notice their “social” discomfort arising. For example, in a social situation, someone with social anxiety may be reluctant to join a conversation or make a phone call for fear of being judged or criticized. They may begin thinking, “Everyone thinks I’m stupid.” Their heart rate may increase and they may begin to sweat. Through the practice of mindfulness, the person may be able to recognize these thoughts as unhelpful and as merely thoughts, which may or may not be true. With practice, the person may be able to accept these thoughts as fleeting, return to the breath and try to calm down. At this point, the person may be able to join the conversation or make the phone call.

It must be emphasized that mindfulness is practice. The same way one cannot expect themselves to be able to play Mozart’s Symphony No. 5 on their first try, it is the same with using mindfulness to treat social anxiety disorder. Mindfulness needs to be practiced to become well-versed at the practice. Accepting the fact that overcoming social anxiety is hard, and will probably be hard for a while, is part of the practice. Through acceptance, a sense of self-compassion may also arise — “I have these negative thoughts about myself. I may not like them, but for now, it is part of me, my experience. I am okay, experiencing social anxiety doesn’t lessen my self-worth.”

Social anxiety disorder is a very common anxiety disorder that affects approximately 7% of Canadians as well as 7% of Americans every year. It can be treated using a variety of methods. Mindfulness is one of the most efficacious. It is essentially paying attention to present moment thoughts and sensations. By practicing mindfulness regularly, one can begin to reduce the anxiety felt in social environments, be it in performance situations or interpersonal interactions.

The practice itself is not difficult, however, remembering to do so can be. This is a good reason why it is important to establish a regular practice: notice the discouraging thought, accepting that one is experiencing social anxiety, coming back to the breath, letting go of the discouraged, starting again. This is the practice.

References:

  1. National Collaborating Centre for Mental Health (UK). Social Anxiety Disorder: Recognition, Assessment and Treatment. Leicester (UK): British Psychological Society; 2013. (NICE Clinical Guidelines, No. 159.) 2, SOCIAL ANXIETY DISORDER. Retrieved from: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK327674/
  2. Introduction: Social anxiety disorder: recognition, assessment and treatment: Guidance. (n.d.). Retrieved from https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/cg159/chapter/Introduction.
  3. Section B – Anxiety disorders. (2015) Retrieved from https://www150.statcan.gc.ca/n1/pub/82-619-m/2012004/sections/sectionb-eng.htm
  4. The Human Face of Mental Health and Mental Illness in Canada, Chapter 5. (2006). Retrieved from https://mdsc.ca/documents/Consumer%20and%20Family%20Support/Anxiety%20disorders_EN.pdf



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